Tuesday, June 2, 2009

The Art of Flirting

Attracting a younger man or older woman can be fun and exciting. Here are some easy tips for flirting.

Body language. Keep your arms open, stand tall, smile. Remember, a person sizes you up before you ever open your mouth from non verbal information. Be approachable.

Eye contact. Look discreetly at first. Keep giving glances. Once you have locked eyes keep looking.

Small talk. Learn the art of making conversation. Don’t think too long before you open your mouth. Be sure it is upbeat and has some humor. Keep the conversation going.

Make it fun. Keep a balance between being engaging enough to retain someone’s attention and not seeming overly available. Think about how fun and confident you are. If it is fun for you it will be fun for them.

Above all, make sure that whatever you do and say that it will make the person comfortable being around you.